Guys, do not send large amounts of money to any Filipina, until you meet in person, you do not know who that person is.
Filipina’s, do not give out any bank information to anyone, do not accept large amounts of money from anyone you have not met in person. (Example: I’m going to meet you in your country, I’m going to send you $5,000.00, but then oh no, I can’t make it after all right now, keep a couple of hundred for yourself and send me the rest, but in reality you received money from someone that was scammed and they probably used your name to scam another guy and now you are connected to a crime. Remember that until you meet in person, you don’t know who they really are.)
Filipina’s don’t meet outside your country (unless of course you live outside your country), if a man from the USA wants to meet you, he meets you in the Philippines and he meets your family, if any man says he doesn’t want to go meet your family then something is wrong (there are married business men that just want to play around). I don’t care how far you live out in the middle of nowhere, if he is serious then he meets your family.
Guys, obviously if you choose to go to the Philippines and you have never been there before, you will want your Filipina to meet you at the airport and if she is traveling a long distance she might need someone to go with her, like a friend or a brother and they might not have money for traveling, you will probably have to provide money to her for that, so that should be the only time you are sending any money and you will talk to her through email and video, you will make sure you know her well enough that you can trust her, well enough that you will be meeting your fiance.
Guy’s if you can’t get a hotel and she doesn’t live a place that is like USA standards of living, then bring or buy a net tent that you can zip up and sleep in, you don’t want to get bit by the wrong mosquito, it will also keep out other things, they are about $15. Not every girl lives in a nice place, you will probably get a hotel, but be prepared if you need to stay in a place that is basically like sleeping outside. Remember to stay away from the bad areas of the Philippines, you don’t need to get kidnapped, I remember one girl that was in the rebel area of the big island at the bottom telling me it was ok to go there to visit her, she says you will be ok, of course I said no way.
Allow time to know each other before setting the date to meet, don’t be in too big of a rush. Guys, you are there to meet 1 woman, don’t think you are going to go there and try to meet 2 or 3 and then decide who is the best, you are meeting only 1, don’t be a jerk like some guys.
It’s worth taking a look at these sites, you can spare the time.
The internet is full of scammers so you have to be very careful.
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Everyone can deal with their own money situations. Know what to watch out for. Prevent the scam from happening.